Friday, September 24, 2021

Status check

 Hello blog,

I know it has been awhile but I have been avoiding this as I have been most anything in my life that deals with Jaclyn.  Frankly after my first failed attempt at transition and suicide attempt I had tried to destroy and remove anything in my world that dealt with my female identity. I have struggled and hurt and drawn further and further within myself these past few years, but that of course is a battle I cannot win.  

I really don't know right now where I am, where I am headed or what I really want to be.  Wouldn't it be nice just to have a quick blood or some other type of test and determine this?  Dunno, all I do know is that I feel up and down and most things inside of me are 180 degrees opposite of what I appear as.

I have started trying to find a new therapist to discuss and as usual there seem to be few that are either comfortable, knowledgeable or able to understand what living with GD feels like.  I am going to keep trying and feel like I need to determine what I am and what I really want first before doing anything else. I feel alone and scared and can use all the support and love as I enter/return to step one once again.

Why does it always feel like I go in circles? I wish I really knew.  

Hugs,
Jaclyn 

6 comments:

  1. I can't say much -and probably little that may help - since I don't really know what you're going though at this moment, except to send love and best wishes.

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  2. It's not always easy this life business ❤️ I can only echo Susie's comment to hope that you find the answers you need. Maybe you're going in circles because you've not yet found what you need? I hope you do.

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  3. Take care, girl, and keep the faith.

    Calie xx

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  4. Thank you everyone for the support - I didn't imagine anyone even saw this blog since I have been so inactive. I appreciate so much knowing I am not alone. I am just struggling and looking for what everyone wants, peacefulness and a connection to others. Thank you.

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  5. Hang in there, hon. Hope you can find a good therapist; they can make a huge difference in helping you sort through all of these emotions. Take care!

    == Cass

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  6. Love yourself, girl!!!!Never give up!!

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